My
saddest and Happy Moments
Experience is a knowledge or skill that
comes from doing, seeing or feeling things. There are many kinds of experience
and they become different moments in our life. We keep some of the moments in
our mind while some others are not. Some of them that we keep well in our mind
are happy moment, frightened moment and even sad moment although we want and
try so hard to forget it sometimes but we are not able to do that. I will tell
about saddest moment and happy moments of my life.
The saddest moment of my life happened
on Thursday, January 1st 2009. That is the day when my father passed
away. On Wednesday night, December 31st 2008, I and my family made a
little party for new year celebration but my father cannot join us because of
his illness. He had been suffering complication disease for a year and it was
getting worse so all he can do is lying on the bed. At that night, my mother
asked me to snug up my father’s bed and pillow him. Then I went to his bedroom
and did those orders. I remember his sleep position at that night even until
today. On the next day, I woke up at 07.30 a.m. and I did not know why my
feeling was not good at that morning. I went to my father’s bedroom to check
his condition as usual and found he is still in the same position as well as
last night. I tried to call his name to wake him up but there was no answer. I
thought he was sleeping tight so he cannot hear my call but I doubt about it.
Then I went to my mother and told her about it. She was surprised and
immediately went to the bedroom. She tried to wake him as I did, but there was
still no response. Then she held his hand to check his artery while I laid down
his head on my thigh. My mother cried because she cannot feel any beat from his
artery. At that moment, we knew that he already passed away. We got nothing to
say, we just cried eyes out. I cannot believe that we celebrate the New Year in
a grief but the fact is that really happened. That day is a hard day for my
family. Our paterfamilias leaves us but life must go on. We try hardly to
accept the fact. One thing that I will never forget is he asked me to look
after my mother as best as I could before he died and I will not disappoint
him.
Where there are sad moments there are a
happy moments. The happy moments of my life are the days when I was in senior
high school. It was two years ago and I was in third grade. That was very
joyful and unforgettable. I spent my adolescence with a lot of fun with my
friend, made our own stories and they become a great memory of our life that we
miss the most now. We spent our days by sharing almost everything. I still
remember all of delinquencies that we made at that time like went out of class
while the teacher was teaching and went to the canteen, cheating in the
examination and made a hullabaloo in the class. One thing that I love from my
friends is they still care about their study although they are naughty. There
are so many of them give amazing achievements for our school including me.
Those make our teachers like us. Actually, there are not only stories about our
delinquencies and togetherness but also story about love and I really love this
one. I found my first girlfriend in senior high school. She is pretty and kind
so that is why I am very proud of being his boyfriend. There is so many
questions arose from my friends about our relationship. The one that very
annoying is “why does she want to be with errie?” I know they were joking but
it really annoy me sometimes. In short, our relationship was ended by her two
weeks after our graduation but I will not tell why because it is private. There
are still many stories about my senior high school that I do not tell about.
Whatever they are, I will always keep them in my mind as a part of me because
they only happened once in my life.
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